This is My Overdue Goodbye …. to the 2000’s

I can’t believe the 2000’s are almost over.  Remember the “panic” of Y2K?  Seems like ages ago … and eerily, it was!

New Year’s Eve 1999 was 10 years ago.  I was trying to think back to where I was then:

I was in the middle of my freshman year of college.  Didn’t know where I was headed after graduation, but I think at the time was gearing up for a career in radio (I was a Communications major).  We had a big group party at my friend Felix’s house on Long Island.

It was a blast.  We played a board game version of Family Feud and lots of rounds of Twister.  We met Sterling, thanks to Jen Ro.  Kate and Pakalika at one point donned a witch wig found in Felix’s house and sang to a song from Rocky Horror Picture Show.  At one point I climbed out the first floor guest room window and dashed out into the snow to dance around with my friends and demand piggybacks (I was in a funny stage).

I remember waking up on January 1, 2000 still in my black poufy Jessica McClintock prom skirt I was wearing the night before (after prom, I insisted on getting my money’s worth and wearing it to every New Year’s party for a couple of years).  I still had some tinsel and glitter in my hair, and someone had written “Hi Mem” on my arm (thanks Kate, I think it was you…).

And I remember thinking, now what?

I was in such a different place than I am now.  Ten years ago I wasn’t in a relationship, still called Long Island my hometown, and felt like I had thousands of years ahead of me until I became an adult.

Now fast forward ten years.  I won’t even begin to go into the many changes since New Year’s 1999, but I can tell you that had you told me ten years ago (heck, even five years ago!) that I’d be where I am now, I would’ve laughed at you. 

But I’m here.

And I love it.

2010 starts off with me loving my PR job in Boston and only five months shy of my wedding to the most amazing guy.  2010 kicks off the beginning of our life together, a whole new chapter in my life that will lead to even more wonderful chapters – our first house together, kids, etc …

When I look back at the 2000’s, I see a lot of happy times.  But I see a lot of sad times, too.  I see a lot of lonely times, and frustrating times.  I went through a lot of guy hell through the 2000’s.  And it’s finally time to close that chapter on my life for good.  I’ve found happiness, and I’m not looking back.

Billboard recently released the top one hit wonders of the past decade.  It made me start to think about what song I would use to sum up the 2000’s for me.  But I can’t.  There’s too many songs that might fit.

However, I feel like this song is a good indicator of where I am now.  See ya later, 2000’s – I’m ready for the next step.

 

In These Shoes…Louboutins

I *love* this cover.

I love everything about her outfit – the top, the jeans, the shoes (naturally, since they’re Christian Louboutins).  I love her hair, I love how her eyes sparkle, I love how comfortable and casual and happy she looks.

Back to the shoes … I have developed a strange obsession with Christian Louboutins (or CLs, as they’re known in some fashion circles).  I decided a few months ago I was going to have a pair for my wedding in May.  I was intrigued by the magic, the mysticism, the height, how the styles were oh-so-cute and fun and funky.

After hunting around ebay, I realized I needed to find out my size.  So I went to Neiman Marcus to try a few pairs

LOVES!!!

 on.  I was with my Mom, we had just spent hours searching for her MOTB dress, and my friend Cristina was waiting to meet up with me.  Needless to say, I didn’t feel like I had much time.  And eyeing the price tags made me nervous – pretty deflated my dream, to be precise.  First, the sandals seemed a little small … and then I tried a pair of black Very Prive platform heels on. 

I totally got it.  I cannot explain the power, the magic, the beauty … even though the heels were 4 inches, they were super comfy and sturdy.  I felt strong and powerful and beautiful.  It was Superwoman condensed into one teeny tiny heel.

And I knew.  I had to have a pair.

And now I’m on the hunt.  It’s been tricky & time consuming & I’ve had tons of close calls … I’ve relegated myself to ebay.  Buying them full price is too much (and ridiculous, to be honest).  The fakes are still pricey, and even the sale price on sites like Net-a-Porter are still out of my range.  So to ebay I go.

“They will be mine.  Oh yes, they will be mine.”

What’s your current fashion obsession?

P.S. Bonus points for anyone who can name the two artists who belong to the two song titles in this post’s title.

P.S. S. My size in CLs is a 38 …

 

A Little Bit of This, a Little Bit of That

Random notes for the evening:

• I got a fantastic email from Rachel Platten last night thanking me for a review of a show I saw her perform at in April with Lucy Woodward and Toby Lightman.  Awesome.  It reminded me how much I miss going to shows (at one point I was seeing 1 – 2 concerts a week!).  And how cool musicians who appreciate fans are.  Time to tap the new music again, soon.  And thank you Rachel and Toby for seeking me out. =)
• Also, Rachel is playing tomorrow night around 9/9:30 at Cafe 939 on Boylston in Boston.  You should go.  Seriously.
• Glee, I love ya.  But I feel like next week’s season finale (Wednesday at 9 p.m. on FOX) is going to leave us all hanging and leave me very, very mad because of it.  Also, please stop focusing on one storyline and then pretending it never happened for 6 weeks until you decide to focus on it again.  It’s breaking up the character consistency.
• I wish we could leave Tiger Woods alone.  But we won’t.  We have a vicious cycle when it comes to the nature of celebrity.  It’s like that couple that crashed the White House party or Bubble Boy or even the Gosselins.  We don’t want to give them their 15 minutes but we can’t help it and so we talk about the time about how we hate talking about them and about how they’re all media ho’s … but then by talking about them, we’ve now granted them their wish.  D’oh.
• Also sending love out to The Soup on E!, Bones on FOX, and Tabatha’s Salon Takeover. 
• Have you seen the wedding blog yet?  http://markandmem.wordpress.com.  Just checking.
• Is it just me, or is everyone having trouble with maintaining personal space lately?  On the train, multiple times at the gym, walking to South Station…
• Grammy nominees announced tonight!
• Also tonight: the lighting of the tree in Rockefeller Center.  I’ve already decorated the house for the holidays (and even received 2 Christmas cards!).  I’m really ready for the season this year.
• While I love you, too, social networks, sometimes nothing fixes a bad mood better than a nice conversation with an old friend.

Holidays are almost here.  What’s on your wish list this year?

From the movie "Holiday Inn" - *love* that film!

 

Quick Link Love

Mark and I are currently featured on two Web sites!  Very exciting. =)  Check them out …

Photography By Media Concepts – Engagement Session Highlights
(PS – this is our wedding photographer)
http://photographybymediaconcepts.com/engagements/index.html

Bring to Light Candles
(a company that my Mom is involved with – very cool custom candles!)
http://www.bringtolightcandles.com/index.php

Off to Vegas for most of the week for work!

 

 

For You I Will

Mark and I have been busy, busy with work and friends but we’ve managed to get a lot accomplished for the wedding, too!  (Psst – have you seen our blog?  http://markandmem.wordpress.com – check it out!)

Here are just a few updates since my last one – as of today, we’ve got 6 and a half months to go:

• We booked the JP this weekend!  Deb Hoch (www.aneverlastingmemory.com) is super cool and romantic and so easy to get along with.  She performed the ceremony at our friends Jo and Darrell’s wedding last May and they had nothing but great things to say about her.  So we met with her this weekend and booked the date.  She’ll be sending us potential vows and we can copy and paste them to fit our own preferences – I love the customizing option!   Also, she insisted on having music on when we met with her because she apparently always has music on.  I die!
• The bridesmaids dresses are all set – the girls are going to look gorgeous!
• Rumor has it that the shower(s), bachelorette party and bachelor party plans are already underway.
• We booked the honeymoon!  We are going to the Sandals Resort at Grande Ocho Rios in Jamaica.  All inclusive.  We are super pumped!
• The Save the Dates have been ordered and are en route to be delivered to us – so we’ll hopefully be sending them out soon.  They’re soooo cute – and we’ll most likely be ordering matching invites from the same company soon, too.  I’m finalizing the last addresses we need so we can send them out once they arrive.

Could these be my "something blue"?

So we’ve made a lot more progress – although I keep getting waylaid because I’m on the hunt for an affordable pair of Christian Louboutins for the big day.  Ebay has become my new homepage and I gotta tell you, it’s not easy.

I’m headed to Vegas next week for a few days to attend the AAPEX/SEMA conference on behalf of one of our clients – so it’ll be tough to start making any big plans until I get back and get all caught up.  I’m still struggling with a lot of the song choices (first dance, bridal party entrance to the reception, etc.).  But I’m probably just putting too much pressure on it and we’ll figure it out soon enough.

Keep you posted as things develop!

PS – Happy Halloween!  What’s your costume this year?  Check out one of my old posts for some fun Halloween facts.

 

Email My Heart…

Mark and I have a wedding blog!  Although I will continue to post updates about the planning process here (in addition to all the fun little random non-wedding moments I share), we now have a dedicated spot for all the details.  We’ve got info on the bridal party, vendor names & links, wedding site details, and more.

Here’s the site:

http://markandmem.wordpress.com

Check it out!

 

Portrait of Love

Our engagement photo session pictures are done and online!

After 3 fun but long hours with our fantastic wedding photographer, Joe, from Photography By Media Concepts, we have more than 125 pictures!

We started out along the waterfront behind the Boston Courthouse.  Then we worked our way up to the Boston Harbor Hotel, then over to Faneuil Hall with a pitstop at the carousel set up on the Rose Kennedy Greenway outside Faneuil Hall.  We were hoping to take pictures along the walkway between Tia’s and The Living Room (we had our first date at the latter location), but there were tents leftover from an earlier event that prevented us from doing so.  However, we were able to recreate our proposal right above the spot in Faneuil Hall where it actually happened almost one year ago.

Check out our photos here:

http://joegoldsberry.smugmug.com/People/Meredith-Mark/

I’m hoping to use one of them for our Save the Date’s, too.  So many options!

Which one’s your favorite?

 

This is the Time to Remember

The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of exciting milestones for my friends, colleagues, family – and even for me and Mark!  Birthdays, weddings, engagements, babies, academic achievements…

Some of these moments have literally made me freeze.  And in this frozen moment, I suddenly think, I can’t believe this is happening.  I can’t believe I’m here.  Shopping for bridesmaids dresses this weekend and watching my sister try on a stunning a dress to be a maid of honor in MY wedding, well, it took my breath away.

Sometimes I think we are so busy going through the motions of living that we forget to stop and realize what we are actually living.

Today at lunch, talking with Abby and Katie, was a real eye opener for me.  We talked about adult things – houses, families, weddings, jobs.  Afterwards I couldn’t stop thinking about how these were 2 girls who, 7 years ago, were pushing me down the dorm hall in a rolling office chair alongside Katie’s then-boyfriend (now husband), trying to see which of us would reach the other end first.  And now, we’re all grown up!

Then again, 7 years IS a long time.  So maybe it’s me.

It also makes me look at where I am and marvel at it all.  Like the line in Rent, “How did we get here, how the heck…?”

But the best part?  I don’t regret a single thing.  Sure, sometimes the “what if’s” come up, out of curiosity.  What if I stayed on the radio job at WLIR instead of the career move to Video Design Software?  What if I stayed up in Amherst that extra year?  What if I never left GDF?  What if I never left Long Island?

And the answer is: I wouldn’t be here.  And I LIKE being here. Even if I sometimes recoil in horror at how … grown up we are (much as we try to deny it with late nights at Steve & Cristina’s or dancing out in town).  Maybe not horror.  Maybe just amazement.

“Life moves pretty fast. You don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” (RIP, John Hughes)

Not my bouquet - but has our colors in it!

On a lighter note, here’s a wedding update:

• We bought our wedding bands and they’re all ready for the big day!
• We booked the florist (still need to meet with the centerpiece florist) and designed the bouquets, boutonnieres, and ceremony flowers
• We booked the photographer
• We looked at bridesmaid dresses and narrowed it down to two options
• We decided on the theme for naming the tables
• We started moving forward on the honeymoon planning
• We got most of the bridal party together for the first time ever this past weekend…and had an amazing time!

So we are making some solid progress.  We had a hiccup a few months ago when we realized how very EXPENSIVE a wedding is, but with some budget and priority rejiggering, we’re back in planning mode hard core.

I love it.  I can’t wait.  If this weekend was any indication, this wedding is going to be incredible.  We are surrounded by the most amazing, wonderful, loving and fun people.*

And I can’t wait to be Mrs. D.

Question: if your self 10 years ago met you now, what’s the one thing they would be most shocked/surprised/amazed at?

Yeah, a lot of us unfortunately looked like this at one point in time...and never thought it would go out of style!

*As I type this, my entrance song for the ceremony just came on.  Crazy!!

 

Please Don’t Stop the Music

Today was Michael Jackson’s funeral service. I had it on in the background during the day at the office (through CNN.com/Facebook, the next generation in monumental event live-viewing).

I wanted to watch because I felt like this was my generation’s Elvis or Marilyn . . . and what amazes me more than anything is the bond people are forming over the music.  Not over the scandals, the weird news stories about him over the past ten years, or the court allegations.  Yes, they are all valid and should be noted.  However, the most amazing thing that is lasting over everything else is the music.  And it’s incredible to watch how something as simple as music can bring people together.

Tonight, at my Zumba class at the gym, the instructor ended the class with an MJ tribute.  She put on “Wanna Be Startin’ Something” and instructed us all to move closer together.  Then, she led us in a simple routine to the classic dance song.  At first, there were a few smiles, grins, people slowly getting into it.  But by the end, there were wide grins, cheers, hoots, hollers, arms waving in the air, and people squealing and singing.

Here was a group of 50 women or so, of all races, colors, creeds, ages, and sizes, who normally don’t even make much room for each other during class, much less talk.  However, with this one song on such a monumental day, we were brought together into a group of women who just loved letting loose to some great music.

I know, it sounds cheesy and silly.  But honestly, even after watching the 2 hour ceremony today, even after hearing Michael’s choked up daughter speak about her father, the whole thing didn’t hit me until that class.  I was near tears watching the power of the song as it came over the group, and thinking about how much I treasured Michael when I was 3, 5, 7 and 12, but haven’t really appreciated him much as of late.

So I want to get back into his music, as cheesy and clichéd as that is to do now.  Because he is-was-an incredible dancer, singer and musician, and I don’t want to forget that.  I want my kids to know about it, and their kids.

As Rihanna sings in her classic song that samples one of Michael’s,
“Please don’t stop the music.”

[Or as my 2-year-old squeaky voiced self used to say, “Biwee Jean, snap my luhv, Biwee Jean, snap my luhv…can you heahw it?”]

I’m currently rocking out to “Say Say Say.” 

What Michael Jackson song are you currently digging?

 

Keep on Rocking in the Free World

Looking for ideas for your 4th of July party playlist this year? Here are some ideas, in no particular order, that will keep the party going long after the fireworks quiet down:

• John Mellencamp – “R.O.C.K. in the USA”
• Counting Crows – “American Girls”
• Mat Kearney – “Girl America” (great late night summer song)
• Live – “Merica”
• Matt Willis – “Sound of America”
• The Soup Dragons – “I’m Free”
• Better Than Ezra – “American Dream”
• James Brown – “Living in America”
• David Bowie – “Young Americans”
• Razorlight – “America” (another chill summer evening tune)
• Phil Vassar – “American Child”
• George Michael – “Freedom”
• Elton John – “Philadelphia Freedom”
• Madonna – “American Life”
• Andrews Sisters – “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy”
• Tom Petty – “American Girl”
• Supertramp – “Breakfast in America”
• Bree Sharp – “America”

*Note – although some of these songs are not about America per se, or might even be slightly derogatory, they’re still great for a patriotic party!!

What songs am I missing?  Post your suggestions, too!

Have a great 4th of July!

(I so want these shoes!)