March 2010

Many of you have been asking about our months-long saga regarding our rings.  Well, folks, here’s the full story.

Quick background: Mark purchased my engagement ring at Lander’s Jewelers, a nice family owned business in the South Shore Plaza in Braintree, MA.  We looked for our wedding bands there back in August of 2009, but didn’t see anything that fit our styles or budget.  We headed downstairs to Kay Jewelers and ended up finding bands there.  And that’s when the horror began.

Now, as a PR professional, I am sensitive about critiquing a brand online based on a minor incident.  But in this case, with MULTIPLE issues at multiple stores and with multiple associates, I am happy to voice my honest opinion about Kay’s.  Across the board, they had no disregard for their customers and were completely out of sync with their repair services.  Even worse, they made errors that they didn’t even seem to care about fixing and/or blamed us.  AND, I saw them treat other customers with the same disrespect.  So I am more than glad to warn my fellow brides and grooms about shopping there for bands – or, frankly, any jewelry. 

So without further ado, here is our saga:

Rings purchased on August 1, 2009 at the Braintree location (#8407)

  1. Salesperson informed us we could notch my band so it fit against the prongs on my princess cut engagement ring and have it filled in again at any point, no charge
  2. We also could bring it to any Kay’s location to have any work done
  3. We sent it out on August 1st to be notched against engagement ring
    1. She told us it would take no longer than 2 weeks, but we asked if we could have it done by the 14th so we could get the engagement ring back for August 15th

August 12th – We received the call that the ring was ready to be picked up

  1. We were not given any details on the condition of the ring, just that it was ready

August 14th – Mark went to the Braintree store to pick up the ring

  1. The sales associate, the same one that sold us the ring, gave Mark the ring
  2. Mark, not the associate, pointed out that the job had been done improperly and the ring was notched crooked
    1. Why didn’t she check and then tell us that when the phone call came in to save us the trip?
    2. She also blamed us and said because we wanted it in 2 weeks, they probably had to do a rush job and that’s why it was botched – THAT  IS NOT OUR FAULT IF THEY DID A BAD JOB!

August 22nd – I brought the ring back to Braintree to get re-notched properly, due to be ready by September 4th

  1. Same associate as before, again she blamed the fix it shop and our need to have the job “rushed” (even though she had told us 2 weeks would be adequate)
  2. No charge because they had made a mistake

September 12th – Picked up the ring

  1. Associate had never seen that done on a ring
  2. Notches still didn’t fit perfectly, he offered that we still had plenty of time to get it re-filled at no charge
  3. I said we would hang onto it and bring it back if our mind changed

January 15th – Went to Brockton store (#1273) to have notches filled in

  1. Spoke with associate who had never seen that done before on a ring
  2. He brought it over to his manager
  3. She had never seen it done either
  4. She called an associate at Braintree to get the full story
  5. Brockton associate said that while she could send it out to get done, because their fix-it shop (different from Braintree’s) didn’t do it originally, she would have to charge us.  So I would have to bring it back to Braintree and have them send it out to their shop to get fixed and then we wouldn’t get charged.
    1. If they all send it out, why can’t they send it to the same shop, or why can’t Brockton just send it to Braintree’s shop?  Why is it so separate?
    2. Frustrating that we had to bring it to Braintree again when we were told we could take it to any Kay’s to get work done

February 13 – Went back to Braintree store to have it filled in

  1. Even though store wasn’t busy, had to wait with another customer for help – even though there were associates not helping other customers and who looked over at us and ignored our calls for help
  2. Associate had never seen that done before on a ring
  3. She recorded it as worn on the sales slip when I informed her it has never been worn (we’re not married yet)
  4. She told me because now the choice to have it filled in was purely cosmetic, they’d have to charge us to do it
    1. When asked for an estimate, she couldn’t give one – we’d just have to wait
  5. While I was helped, another customer was helped, who was picking up a ring he had bought for his soon-to-be fiancée (he had it sent out to be resized & had finally paid it off to propose in time for Valentine’s Day on the next day)
    1. The clerk gave him the ring without inspection and he looked at it and noticed a HUGE diamond missing
    2. The clerk took it back, confused, and asked him, “Oh, so you’re bringing it in to have the diamond filled?”  He said, “No, I just came in to pick it up – you just gave it to me!!”
    3. She said they’d have to send it out again to get filled
    4. He was like, “Why didn’t you check it when it came in?  Why can’t you do it here? I need it for tomorrow!”
    5. She just said, “Oh well, sorry.  We can’t fix it here.”
    6. Why don’t clerks check merchandise before it comes in?  That’s twice the fix-it shop made a mistake and the customer wasn’t notified about it until they came in.
    7. Why should I send it out again to a shop that clearly has made more than one mistake??

February 19th – Received the call on the estimate, which was in the triple digits

  1. When I explained the situation and my anger and frustration to the clerk, she was just, oh well.
  2. When I told her we were told we could have it fixed in again at no charge, she said we needed it in writing.
  3. She told me we had about a week to decide and was quick to get me off the phone

February 28th – Went back to the store

  1. We first met with a jeweler at another store to find out if they could fill it if Kay’s refused to drop the charge
    1. The other jeweler said they were ridiculous to charge us HALF the price of the ring for a $15 service.  Yes, a $15 service. 
  2. Mark and I brought this story to explain to the manager at Kay’s
  3. He remembered us and so finally decided they would fix the ring at no charge.
  4. He entered the order into the computer and we left the store.

March 11th – Received the call that the “repair” was ready

  1. I went to the store on March 13th to pick it up
  2. The manager from the last time helped out and gave me the ring – which was NOT fixed at all
  3. When I pointed this out to him, he just went, “oh”
  4. He checked the system and realized when he put in the order, the ring was ALREADY back at the store, not fixed
    1. Scary that they don’t have an updated computer system to notify them when customer’s products return to the store
    2. Why did they call 2 weeks later if nothing happened to it?
  5. He put in the order AGAIN, so now we had to wait another two weeks and come back on a separate trip

March 25th – Received the call that the ring was ready

  1. Went to the store & the clerk couldn’t find the ring anywhere in the ring holds
  2. He checked the computer, which said the ring was already picked up on March 13th
    1. I explained to him the last situation, he was in shock that it had happened
  3. He and 2 other clerks continued to search the store
  4. They finally found it, with a different work order number than my slip (which is why he couldn’t find it)

LO AND BEHOLD, the notches were filled in.  The ring was actually, truly, really, ready.

I walked out of the store and vow (no pun intended) never to walk in again.

Why did the clerk tell us how to adjust a ring if NO ONE else, at multiple locations, who have been in the industry for years, has never seen that done?  Did she “make up” a service to close the sale?  Is that why the shop can’t get it right, because it essentially shouldn’t be done?

Moral of the story: Sometimes it’s worth it to pay a little bit more at the mom and pop shop.  If you are looking for engagement rings, wedding  bands, or any other kind of jewelry, head to Lander’s first.  Trust me – it’s worth it!

Comments welcomed from anyone else who experienced such awful and unprofessional and disorganized service at Kay’s as well.


I haven’t done one of these in a while but they’re fun to do every so often – thinking of fun things puts me in a good mood.  I used to do these all the time on my MySpace blog (“Mom, what’s a MySpace?” will be the new “What’s an album?” question) … So here’s a list for 2010!

Faves of the moment (in no particular order):

I love Boston in the springtime! 🙂

• The fact that I’m writing this post on a BlackBerry…while riding on a train!
• My wedding is in 53 days!
• Free pastry day yesterday at Starbucks
• Glee is coming back next month
• I have the most awesomest bridesmaids ever
• Hearing a song come up on my iPod and then imagining everyone dancing to it at the wedding
• 90s Fridays in me and Meg’s office!
• 5ive’s “All Around” (still one of my all time fave feel-good songs)
• Wearing flip flops for the first time again
• New season of Saving Grace this summer
• Checking things off the bridal checklist
• Max and Dylan’s in downtown Boston
• My coworkers when we’re all beyond stressed and get into that end of day silly mode. It’s good to laugh with the people you spend most of your time with 🙂
• So many friends who got engaged and had babies so far this year
• Hearing Teddy Geiger while sitting at a bar, drinking a glass of Prosecco and sitting next to a window opened onto a bright spring day.  It’s like I’m 25 all over again.
• When the summer concert venues finally release their summer schedules!
• Getting RSVP postcards in the mail
• Afternoon snack of oranges and a handful of mixed nuts
• The new Saturday hip hop abs class at the gym. I miss my girl Marissa but you can’t beat a high intensity aerobics workout that includes “Humpty Dance” and “Plane to PR” in the same set.
• Sliced salami
• Ecco in East Boston
• Catching up with old friends on the phone (especially those who allow you to keep them on speakerphone so you can keep cutting out rehearsal dinner invites, lol)
• I am getting to marry my best friend and soulmate in front of our closest friends and family in less than 3 months
• When the episode of Glenn Beck is over so we can go back to everything else on the DVR, lol
• Finding an old favorite album I only have on cassette in the used CD sale bin at Newbury Comics
• Getting a pedicure
• The new Liberty of London line at Target
• Two and a Half Men
• My blue wedding shoes. I cannot wait til after the wedding so I can wear them out of the house, haha!
• Long text message conversations with Kate
• Sunshine!!
• Ricky Martin’s “Drop It On Me” (featuring Daddy Yankee)

What are some things making YOU smile this week?


New post coming soon!  I promise.  I’m sorry I’ve been so neglectful. 😦  As most of you probably know, with exactly 2 months to go from today (!), I’ve been kinda busy planning this event thing happening in May. 😉  But I’ll try to post something here very very soon.

In fact, one post I’m waiting on putting up is a result of all this wedding planning … while good things can come out of it – like finding amazing vendors (Joe, Deb, Ron F, Em, Stephanie, Carol, etc…), bad things also do too – like finding not-so-amazing vendors (ahem, Kay’s!).  So I’m waiting on this particular situation to FINALLY come to an end … but when it does, oh boy, believe me, you will get to hear all about it …

In the meantime – planning a St. Patrick’s Day party this year?  Check out my post with some very clever ideas to help you host a lucky event. 🙂